It was a very nasty rape. Dana’s ex-boyfriend had been harassing her since they cut up up, after which on the evening of November 18, 2012, he turned up drunk at her Invercargill house.
She agreed to let him crash on a sofa. They began kissing, however then issues turned violent, in accordance to Dana, whose actual title can’t be revealed for authorized causes.
“He pushed me over the again of the sofa and smacked my head on the bottom.
“He mentioned if my daughter wakened he’d hurt her as nicely. Then he proceeded to rape me for three hours.
* 10 years on Louise Nicholas welcomes remaining report
* Police watchdog investigating sexual harassment grievance
* Dame Margaret Bazley exits public life after remaining report
“He smashed my head into the bottom a couple of occasions, choked me twice, tried to sodomise me, pulled my hair and pulled me backwards …so I ended up having a extreme again harm.
“He ended…by holding me down and urinating on me.”
The following months had been additionally traumatic as Dana battled a police power that didn’t appear to take her grievance severely.
Different girls instructed related tales.
One complainant had no communication for months, lastly getting an e-mail saying her alleged rapist denied it and was “making an attempt to maneuver on along with his life”.
For a number of months after Dana spoke to police, there was no investigation due to confusion over whether or not she needed to make a proper grievance. The officer concerned was later discovered to have had a lax and unsympathetic perspective, however he refused to apologise personally.
So when police proudly introduced this month that they’d ticked off all 47 suggestions from a 2007 Fee of Inquiry report into the way in which they deal with sexual assault instances, Dana was fuming.
Do you might have a narrative to inform? E mail firstname.lastname@example.org
Police Commissioner Mike Bush declared: “Victims of sexual assault who flip to police right now can count on to take care of workers who uphold our values of empathy, professionalism, and respect.”
Police Commissioner Mike Bush: Sexual assault victims are handled with “empathy and respect”. Picture: David White/Fairfax
Dana says: “It’s an absolute load of garbage. They want to confess there continues to be an issue. They haven’t modified their sufferer blaming rape tradition…and I consider they only title drop Louise Nicholas and say, ‘if Louise Nicholas agrees, then this should be the case’.”
Nicholas is the girl whose historic allegations of gang rape in opposition to Rotorua law enforcement officials sparked the inquiry in 2004. She is an advocate for Rape Prevention Training and is commonly introduced in by police and different Authorities organisations to assist take care of the fallout from complaints.
Nicholas was current at a gathering between Dana and police in late 2013 at which Dana claims she was instructed that one in all the explanations a prosecution couldn’t proceed was as a result of she’d “failed to tolerate” an anal examination as half of her forensic medical examination.
However she’d had to ebook the appointment herself, as police had failed to take action.
Nicholas spent months working with Dana and police to discover a decision and helped safe a $2000 grant for her to relocate to Wellington.
Nicholas says Dana was handled badly at the starting, however police did their greatest to rectify that and their apology was real.
Louise Nicholas, seen right here with Detective Inspector Tusha Penny, believes the police tradition has modified for the higher. Picture: Kevin Stent/Fairfax
The way in which police deal with survivors of sexual violence is “a hell of loads higher than even a couple of years in the past”, however there’s loads extra work to do, Nicholas says.
“I’m nonetheless getting [cases] the place a survivor will say ‘I’ve simply acquired an e-mail saying it’s not going any additional’ – that’s completely disgusting.
“These survivors aren’t case file numbers, they’re individuals who’ve been via trauma.
“Generally it received’t go any additional as a result of there’s not sufficient proof…however police ought to be doing a higher job at supporting and informing our survivors each step of the way in which.”
Nicholas says she is saddened by criticism that she now “works” for police or is in some way on their aspect. She receives no fee from police, she says.
“When the s… goes down, I’m proper there criticising them – I won’t ever be silent in opposition to police.”
THE COP AND THE SEX TEXTS
Dana’s case was sophisticated by the actual fact that, simply earlier than the rape, she’d ended an affair with an Invercargill police officer.
She knew the officer, who was engaged to be married, and had gone to him for recommendation about the continuing harassment by her former associate.
Dana says the officer began flirting along with her and instigated an affair that lasted six weeks and included sexual encounters when he was on obligation and in uniform. Whereas it was consensual, she was susceptible at the time, she says.
Her ex came upon about the connection, and she believes it prompted the sexual assault.
Dana has needed to go away Invercargill to get away from her attacker and police she says botched the case. Picture: Rob Kitchen/Fairfax
Even after the rape, the police officer continued to pester her for cellphone intercourse – sending lots of of express texts, together with one the place he indicated he was pleasuring himself whereas on obligation in his police automobile and one other the place he mentioned he’d like to strip search her.
One mentioned: “I need to chew you”.
Dana referred to as off the connection and laid a grievance about the officer, which was upheld.
Southern District Police Commander Superintendent Andrew Coster, now an assistant commissioner, acknowledged the connection was “utterly inappropriate conduct” on the officer’s half, paperwork obtained by Dana below the Official Data Act present.
Police had taken “all affordable steps to handle it as an employment situation”, he instructed Dana, however he couldn’t give her particulars of disciplinary motion.
The officer stored his job, and just lately acquired a service award.
Dana additionally laid a grievance in opposition to the officer who initially dealt along with her, detective Don Ward, who she says was dismissive, “ho hum” and did nothing for three months after she mentioned she wished to make a proper grievance.
She acquired a letter from Inspector Lane Todd, Invercargill space commander, providing “honest apologies” for the way in which she was handled and saying Ward’s method was “unacceptable”.
She was later instructed by Coster failure to convey in a specialist assist employee in the early phases seemingly contributed to the delays, paperwork present.
Ward was formally disciplined however remained on the grownup sexual assault workforce, police bosses saying it was higher to carefully monitor workers than transfer the issue round.
He refused to apologise in particular person and Dana was instructed police couldn’t make officers accomplish that if they didn’t need to.
Ward says there’s one other aspect to the story however it could be unprofessional of him to remark.
A police jobsheet obtained below the OIA says officers agreed if Dana’s grievance ever went to trial, the affair with the police officer would be “uncovered”.
This brought about her to accuse police of making an attempt to cowl up her grievance to guard their popularity, an allegation police strongly deny.
The OIA paperwork present that police questioned Dana’s credibility due to a textual content she despatched her rapist the next morning.
It mentioned “sorry for final evening”. Dana explains that she despatched the message to strive to cease him coming after her once more.
“I can see how it seemed dangerous, however if police had truly checked out all the harassment prior, then it would have made sense.”
Her ex’s texted response – “so it’s best to be…utterly yr fault” – wasn’t talked about on the information.
The investigating officers steered there may be a component of “vindictiveness”, in that each Dana’s grievance in opposition to the police officer and her ex-boyfriend concerned males she’d damaged up with.
One report claimed that “tough intercourse” was a function of her relationship along with her alleged rapist.
Dana says that’s utterly unfaithful. “I’m not into tough or degrading intercourse in the slightest and by no means have been. It’s pathetic the lengths they went to to make me the dangerous particular person.”
As it seems, the alleged offender could have gotten away with rape twice – the paperwork present that two years earlier, one other former associate made an identical grievance, however no expenses had been introduced, once more due to lack of corroborating proof.
Dana says she may have dealt with the choice not to put expenses, if solely her grievance had been investigated correctly and she or he’d been handled with respect.
“By the tip of it all, I utterly felt investigated myself for making a rape grievance… investigated like a felony actually.”
* In response to questions on the instances featured right here, and police dealing with of sexual assault instances generally, Detective Superintendent Tim Anderson mentioned he couldn’t remark for privateness causes however inspired anybody who wasn’t proud of their expertise to “let us know so we will focus on the points and enhance our service to victims”.
He mentioned the extra than 100 specifically skilled grownup sexual assault investigators – up from zero 10 years in the past – are devoted and keen about getting the greatest end result for the sufferer.
“None of our investigators come to work to do a dangerous job however sometimes our communication to victims can be improved –these are the issues we would like hear about so that we will proceed to do higher.”
“HE WANTS TO MOVE ON WITH HIS LIFE”
“Michaela” waited months to listen to from police – they lastly despatched an e-mail saying they wouldn’t be prosecuting. Picture: Rob Kitchen/Fairfax
Michaela was so badly overwhelmed by her ex-partner that she took an overdose of drugs, as she couldn’t see any method out.
Whereas she was unconscious, she says, he raped her.
She was instructed by a feminine police officer in August, 2014 that it would be troublesome to take a prosecution, however they’d “strive their greatest, and it doesn’t matter what occurred we’d meet in particular person and she or he’d clarify the choice”.
Months went by with no phrase. Lastly, Michaela says, she acquired an e-mail saying no expenses would be laid.
“They mentioned he strongly denied the allegations and was making an attempt to maneuver on along with his life. There was no supply of help, that was principally it.
“It was fairly surprising. They reckon they tried to name me however I had my cellphone on me at all occasions and had no missed calls, so they lied about that.”
Michaela demanded a gathering so she may get extra info however discovered it intimidating and felt like she was being disregarded.
“I want I’d by no means bothered [with a complaint],” she says. “I ought to have simply left it alone, it simply made it worse.”
“Emily” didn’t lay a proper grievance, however nonetheless discovered herself traumatised by police. Picture: Lawrence Smith/Fairfax
One other complainant, Emily, was raped six months in the past, by a person she’d solely just lately met. They had been in mattress however when he disclosed he had a associate, she mentioned she wouldn’t sleep with him. That’s when he raped her, she says.
As a result of she’d willingly gone into the person’s bed room, Emily figured she be “crucified” in court docket. “I’ve had sufficient mates go via the judicial system and be hammered.”
However she didn’t need to remain silent both, so determined to report the rape to police so it would be on the report if the person ever re-offended.
Her dealings with Counties Manukau police had been weird.
She was requested to come back to the station to speak about why she’d determined not to go forward with a proper grievance, with a view to working with different victims.
As a substitute, she says, she was grilled by a feminine officer.
After insisting that Emily give particulars of the rape, she mentioned “yeah, you’d have been laughed out of court docket,” she says.
“She mentioned ‘why didn’t you say no?’ I’d already defined that I’d mentioned no 4 or 5 occasions. She mentioned ‘possibly since you stopped saying no he thought it was consent’.
“I used to be considering ‘woman, you’re within the fallacious job’. She had no empathy, she’s clearly spent loads of time in the police power in a tradition that hasn’t modified.”
Emily says the officer talked about establishing a brand new programme to educate girls on the right way to say no “in order that males get it”.
“I mentioned ‘I hope that falls flat on its face’. How dare you set any extra burden on girls than they already carry.”
She believes police have made some enhancements prior to now 10 years. “It’s like possibly 20 per cent higher. There’s nonetheless 80 per cent to go.”
* Each girls’s names have been modified for authorized causes.